| This week's focus You're Allowed to Change How You Care for Your Hair Somewhere along the way, a lot of women started feeling like once we went natural, wearing our hair any other way meant we lacked self love or didn't love our natural texture the way it naturally grew out of our heads. I don't have that belief. Freedom from the opinions of people will allow you to style your hair anyway you please. That's why I'm unapologetically becoming a straight hair natural. Why? For one, my hair...your hair is yours to care for and style as you like. For two, how you manage it is allowed to change as your lifestyle changes and it's your prerogative in the words of Mr. Brown. For me, the season of life I'm in calls for a bit less maintenance along with the desire for a different aesthetic. It's not to please anyone else. When you choose to wear your hair straight, that doesn't make you any less committed to healthy hair, or any less committed to who you were born to be. Caring well for what God has given you was never about one particular style. It's about paying attention, using wisdom, and not tying your worth to your curl pattern. | "How you care for your hair is allowed to change as your life changes." | So if you've been holding back from a change because you're unsure what it says about you, I'd tell you it doesn't have to say anything at all. You can wear your hair the way that serves this season of your life and still be exactly who you are.
Care for it well. Be wise, love how you look in the mirror and keep it moving. |